1. What would you do if there were a group of not- so- friendly mothers who spawned some not- so- friendly daughters and you watched how these not -so -friendly daughters interacted or lack there of with your little one? What would you do?
a. Say something to them (mom's or little girls)
b. Ignore and move on
c. Slap someone elses child ( no not really, but feel like doing it anyway)
d. deal with watching this helplessly
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2. Would you show more favor to one of your children at any point in life? To what degree or would it depend on circumstance?
a. Absolutely Not
b. Maybe
c. I would if no other of my children found out
d. Yes, without question
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3. Do you hold you sister to a higher standard than your friends? If so, why? If not, does this allow her certain freedoms/allowances to repeat offend/wrong you and require you to look past?
a. Yes to all above
b. No to all above
c. Same standard across the board (friends/family)
d. Depends on offences
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Just some questions I would love some perspective on.....
1) If these daughters weren't nice to my little one I would def. say something to the mothers about it. If they were just ignoring her I'd ignore it. Let's be real...some children are mean!!
ReplyDelete2) First off I only have one child...but I'd like to think that if I had 2 I would show some favor depending on the circumstances, age etc! Kids at different times need different things, and what's good for one may not be good for the other. I think it's okay as long as the favors get returned to the other child when he/she needs it. No matter what your children will think you favored the other no matter how much you try to be completley fair all the time. And frankly, that's just not possible. D def.
3) I only have a brother, so I don't really know what it's like having a sister. BUT, I can see how a sister could get away with doing things that you wouldn't let your friends get away with and vica versa. A def.